Eugene A. Autiello

Message from Chris White

I’m fortunate to have been able to share 30 years with my Grandfather and to have many memories from the time spent with him. When we were much younger and barely in our conscious lives, he would take Brian and me for walks in the neighborhood when we visited, where he would have us shake trees until the leaves fell off (it was to test our strength), go play with the Lawrence kids on the playground, and make sure we capped our day with a visit to the ice cream truck when it came by around 4 o’clock. Those were great times and it wasn’t until I was much older that I grew to appreciate the lesson he had taught me through all of these activities – to enjoy the simple things in life.

I’ll always remember my Grandfather as someone who enjoyed the simple things and had his own unique personality that he was never afraid to share with those around him. I can recall numerous birthday parties where he would start singing The Happy Birthday Song 10 minutes before the cake was even placed on the table, and we would all say “Grandpa, we’re not ready yet!” And he would always say “Oh, I’m just warming up” and then proceed to resume his own Happy Birthday Song 5 minutes later and then lead the actual Happy Birthday Song when everyone was finally ready.

There were so many other memories such as when we would play card games like War where he would say “Wouldn’t it be nice if they could decide wars by playing cards instead of actually fighting?”, or when he told us stories of his weight lifting exploits from when he was younger, or the way he would always appreciate a good meal and compliment my Grandmother’s delicious cooking by saying it was “better than a restaurant.”

There are so many memories and I look forward to continuing the sharing of memories and lessons learned from my Grandfather with my present and future family and friends.

- Chris White

A candle was lit by Barbara White on October 12, 2017 1:54 AM

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Message from Kim O'Neil

Oh Chris this is beautiful thank you for sharing this with everyone. We love you very much and I know Grandpa is smiling for you.

Message from Vina Troianello

On behalf of my sisters and I please accept our sympathies on the passing of your dad.The Troianellos and the Autiellos grew side-by-side on Woodland St. We were neighbors but most importantly dear family friends.
I was truly saddened having read of his passing.
Vina Troianello

A candle was lit by Barbara White on October 12, 2017 2:07 AM

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Thank you Vina, It was truly very nice and comforting to see your post. Brought back good memories of our times growing up on the Prospect Hill with you, Diane, and Lee.It was a rare thing to have good, helpful, caring neighbors who we called friends.I still think of your family when I look at your old house.
As you know, it doesn't matter how old our parents are when they pass, it is still hard. I will always remember my Dad's good nature and how he cared for his girls right up to the very last minute. He was worried about me leaving the hospital so late. I told him I wasn't going anywhere. We were so very blessed to have him as our father. He will be sorely missed by his family and friends.

Message from Bob and Mal Roche

Dear Kim and Family, so very Sorry for your loss! Prayers and thoughts are with you and your Family! R.I.P God Bless and Hold him in the Palms of his Hands! Love you much Mal and Bob Hugs 💟 💟 💟

Message from Carol Declercq

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your father, father-in-law, grandfather, etc. His passing is, I'm sure, an immense loss to all of you. I hope your love and support for each other will help you through this very painful time.

Blessings to your family.